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Will EFT take away normal grief? Page 2
"Even
though there are some things that I wish had been very different between us,
I choose to find this a time of healing for both of us."
Or, (for
the LAST part of the sentence): "… I choose to use this time of
unusual closeness and intensity to heal some of our old problems in a
surprising way."
If the
issue is some fears and doubts and uncertainties your husband may have about
how it will feel to be fatherless in this world — this can be a problem
at any age because on some level we are all children at heart — then
your husband might try one of these set-up phrases:
"Even
though I'm shocked by the thought that I will be without my father for the
rest of my life, I choose to be more aware than ever of all the good things
he gave to me, knowingly or unknowingly. “
Or,
"… I choose to know that the best of him will live on in us,
and be stronger because of this fact."
Or, "I
choose to cherish the happy memories of him which will give me much comfort."
I have
found that if somebody uses EFT to prepare for an impending death of a loved
one, or for grieving after that person has died, that its use can often
transform the personal pain (and any resentment at the very fact of the loss)
into a new feeling about the person who has gone. Those who have used
EFT to handle this sort of situation have found that the surviving person's
memories of the departed person now are much more selective —more and
more they tend to remember the good times and wonderful things about the
person who has passed away. This is, after all, the supreme way to
honor anyone. After using EFT, what hasn't been perfect in the
relationship is washed away, and what it is memorable, the true gems of the
relationship are retained.
I hope
your husband will use EFT creatively at this time so that the experience of
his father's illness and death becomes one of growth on a fulfilling level
for all concerned. This is quite the opposite of numbing oneself, or
hardening oneself to a blow. If he can use EFT in this manner, it will
not only benefit himself and the rest of the family, but indirectly in some
manner his new positive attitude may also be conveyed to his father, even if
his father is barely conscious. This can occur through your
husband's tone of voice, gestures, and words and above all by the change in
his energy field. In this way, by using EFT to resolve these issues
within himself, your husband will be assisting his father to move on
peacefully, with a sense of completion — a true gift.
I hope
these thoughts help you and your husband to move gracefully through this
transition, and that they may also help those readers who may be facing
similar crises, or helping others to face them.
EFT
Master, Dr. Patricia Carrington
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