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How to Use Role Playing in EFT Page 2
After
several rounds of EFT Janet’s SUDS level (stress rating on a 0 to 10
point scale) had come down from a 10 to a 4 and it was time for us to run
through the role-play again so that I could see if there was any change in
her behavior. We played the scene over again and I was excited to hear the difference
in her voice. She was much crisper, more definite, and her words were
stronger and clearer.
She said,
“I want to talk to you about something. I realize that it’s not
possible for me to do both projects, the one I’m already working on and
this new one. I just won’t be able to do them both.” While she
was not yet as firm as she needed to be for me (playing the boss) to respect
her fully, I already had a different attitude as I listened to her. I knew
that this was not going to be an easy situation and that she meant business,
that she really was in a difficult spot. I (as boss) began to think that
maybe she really couldn’t handle both jobs at once, something which
apparently had not occurred to me before.
We then
continued with EFT. She did the Choice Trio using the same set-up phrase, and
when she was finished she said she felt a lot better about telling this to
her boss. I could see that she did. She was sitting up much straighter in her
chair, her eyes were bright and her chin was lifted “firmly”. I
said, “OK, we’re going back to the beginning, you’re coming
into the office, I am busy looking over my papers, and I say, “What is
it Janet?”
“I
have something I want to talk over with you.” she said in a clear
“listen-to-me” voice. “I’ve been thinking a lot about
the assignment you want me to do, and of course it’s one I am
interested in doing and would certainly want to do for you. But I’m
afraid that this time I’m not going to be able to do it and still
fulfill the other obligations and deadlines we’ve agreed on. The two
cannot be done by one person at the same time. However, I have some
suggestions about who I think could step in and help you with this, if
you’d like to hear them.”
I
didn’t need to hear another word. She was crisp, definite and poised
— and indeed she was gracious. As boss, this gave me great respect for
her, a respect I had not previously felt in our enactments of this scene. I
knew that she knew what she was talking about, that she was correct, and that
she was going to try to be helpful to me.
I
immediately shared my new, very positive reaction to her behavior with Janet
and she commented to me that she felt she would be able to talk to her boss
now with no problem. I knew she meant it. So, when she returned the following
week to tell me the talk with her boss had gone extremely well and she no
longer needed to work on this issue, I was not in the least surprised.
Role
playing had enabled me to add several very nice features to our EFT work. One
was the feedback I was able to give her along the way which helped her adopt
a new attitude about herself. Another was that the EFT process had been
vivified, made real, and brought directly into the therapeutic session,
through the role playing. I urge any of you who are comfortable with role
playing – I happen to be extremely so – to try out this
combination and see how it can enrich some of the EFT sessions with your
clients.
EFT
Master, Dr. Patricia Carrington
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