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EFT, Severe Mental Illness and a Murderous Impulse

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EFT can be
used to defuse the original events in the person’s life which created
their present uncontrollable impulses in the first place. In other
words, work to heal the problem at its core rather than treating the SYMPTOM
of rage, for example. This approach is illustrated perfectly for us by Lori
Lorenz’s case in which she did just this and it worked. Notice that
Lori didn’t treat the symptom. She didn’t ask her client to
accept himself, even though he might explode. Instead she went straight
to the core issue of his relationship with his explosive mother and helped
him work on that. While it is tempting to treat the symptom as I did with
Roland, and it might even work if the client had sufficient inner controls in
place, my recommendation is that we as therapists not take this risk, but
rather follow Lori’s path. If you move straight to the core issue
and treat that, the rage will usually take care of itself.
In
Roland’s case, since he was so removed from immediate contact with his
emotions, it might have taken quite a while for us to get at his core issues
using EFT. We probably wouldn’t have made much, if any, inroads
on this in the first session; although in retrospect it might have been worth
trying.
To
summarize, when dealing with problems which involve a severe disturbance of
impulse control, I consider it best to apply EFT in such a way that it heals
the distress that lies deep within the client him/herself first.
Another
useful tactic can be to treat the rage without using any set-up or reminder
phrases at all, just strategic tapping on acupoints. Roland’s
irrational conclusions stemmed from his use of a reminder phrase that
involved acceptance of his anger, not from the tapping procedure
itself. However, in Roland’s case, since he was so detached from
his emotions, I could not easily have asked him to tap for distress because
he was apparently calm about the whole thing. Actually, it was one of the
ominous signs he displayed. Possibly though, I could have located some
tensions in his body and had him tap for these and that might have been of
help.
Ann Adams’
use of EFT
as a simple relaxation/impulse control method with emotionally disturbed boys
in an institutional setting (go to is a perfect example of this use of EFT to
control a temper tantrum. Her report brings up another an important question
and that is whether there is a difference between the use of EFT for reducing
violent impulses in a structured setting such as a rehabilitative institution
or prison -- where the client is protected to some extent at least from
acting out destructive impulses -- versus its use for out-patients where the
only controls in place are the client’s internal ones.
As we
know, many behavioral interventions can be highly effective as long as a
person remains in an institutional environment, because the institution
itself acts as a restraining force, while the same treatment may no longer be
effective when that person leaves the protected environment and has to rely
once again on his/her own often fragile internal controls.
It may be
that using EFT to help a person “accept” such symptoms as
explosive, acting out tendencies might conceivably work if the person were
confined in a protected environment; however, I personally would not want to
take the risk. Although, I have heard reports from staff there are some
institutions where tapping therapy has been used for acceptance of violent
impulses with apparent success. Unfortunately, the staff workers
involved could not adequately follow up with the youngsters they had treated
after they had left the institution. Therefore, they actually didn’t
know whether these boys were able to control their rage when they were
released. Until we learn more about this, I would advise any therapist
using EFT for impulse control to apply it in one of the ways I have suggested
above, or use some other failsafe method.
In closing
I want to say that I have regrets when I think about the mistake I made when
using EFT with Roland in the manner I did. However, I console myself with the
fact that my alternate treatment plan for him did work out, and I hope that
my experience with this can help all of us learn a little bit more about how
to apply this remarkable method in the most clinically effective manner.
EFT Master, Dr. Patricia Carrington
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