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The Use of Anti-Depressive Medication with EFT Page 2

These are the depressions that often have their roots in the deepest layers of a personality because they are so ingrained, originating so early in the person's life.  Usually they are dim and vague.  These depressions have a heaviness about them that makes trying to deal with them by using EFT or by any other means often a test of endurance for the therapist who, time and time again, may bring the person to a place of lightness and feel the weight lift from them, — sometimes after they have tapped their way through a whole series of aspects to what seems to be a wonderful result — only to find that at their next appointment the person comes to their session almost as though they had been collapsed and their gains seem to have been swept away.  It's like watching a child build sand castles by the sea — so much painstaking work and attention goes into those turrets and the moats and the towers and the little stick drawbridges, the castle seems to be really getting there! — and then the waves crash onto the beach and swish it all away, and all that's left is mush and a few wet mounds of sand.

When this happens to a client of mine I keep trying.  I really work with them.  I use EFT with all my encouragement and ingenuity and I use every other technique I think might help.  I feel hopeful then discouraged in turn.  I often have to tap on myself after they leave the office to keep my spirits up and to ensure my support of them.  But when it happens over, and over, and over again, then I'll finally get the message.  What we are building is being undermined as fast as we create it!  The client may be trying, as I am, to beat this game but it's like trying to hold back an avalanche, a force that's so huge we can't get ahead of it, it's pulling them back down each time so that what we're constructing so carefully simply doesn't hold.

Gary Craig COMMENT:  Although Pat mentions it below, I would like to emphasize that allergens, energy toxicity and the like can be very important contributors to an otherwise "un-budge-able" state of depression.  I have seen several cases where the mere removal of certain items from the diet makes major inroads into, if not completely clears, the depression.  When the depression keeps "coming back" I always suspicion that the true cause is an irritant to the system which, typically, is part of their ongoing diet.  When this is the case, the "coming back" is simply the newest reaction to some irritating substance.

It's at that point, after exhausting all avenues — including, if the client cooperates, with a referral to full allergy and sensitivity testing and treatment by a trained energy allergy-therapist — that I find myself deeply grateful for the fact that I still have hope of succeeding by getting temporary assistance through referring the patient to a specialist for psychiatric medication to be used ALONG WITH the therapy and the EFT.   Saying this may sound like heresy to those who use the amazing alternative and complementary therapies that we know work so well, and which I myself use in all cases WHERE THEY WORK, but there is an important function that the so-called psychotropic medications for depressions can fill, at least in this point in history, something nothing else can quite do in certain cases.  Prozac and Zoloft and Paxil, or even on occasion their more forbidding relatives such as the MAO Inhibitors, Lithium and the like, are powerful drugs and like anything of power they can be dangerously misused.  BUT — and this is an important "but" — they can also, on occasion, make it possible to continue to treat and ultimately to "save" a person whom we might otherwise have had to give up on.

An example is my client “Maria" who is a gifted teacher.  She has been working with me for three years now to overcome deep-seated personality problems, including a strong tendency to depression and frequent helpless crying spells.  These stem, at least in part, from an early childhood separation from and partial rejection by a mentally ill, frequently hospitalized mother who had been at least able to give her daughter some love when she was an infant, but little afterwards.  Maria is highly intelligent and strongly motivated to overcome her feelings of irrational helplessness and threat and is truly rewarding to work with. 

However, we discovered early on in her treatment that although she would often make excellent progress, even dealing with core issues that were central to her life with the help of EFT which she uses skillfully (at home, too) we were still unable to quell the tide of the depression.  The despair and fear were just too much for her and they could completely undermine our work.  And so it became necessary for her to have the assistance of medication which she could use while we were tapping on these problems in therapy, with the aim of phasing out the medicine as soon as she would build up her inner strength.

Through the use of Prozac (yes — that "terrible" word!) on a regular basis, Maria and I have been able to do transformational work together.  With the help of EFT she has been able to explore the deepest issues, some of them so early in origin as to be wordless, and to one by one resolve them.  And, with the support to our work that she has obtained from the medication — which didn't in itself solve her problems but did enable her to work on them diligently in therapy — she has rebuilt a "self", has restructured her relationships to people and the world, and recently she has in fact been able to drastically reduce the medication and periodically to stop taking it altogether.  Right now she is once again voluntarily taken herself off of all medication and is doing remarkably well in an exciting new phase of her treatment.

The point I want to make though is that without the help of the drug we couldn't have done it, and similarly, if she had had the drug alone without the therapy and the remarkable help of EFT, she would not have healed — at best the drug would have held her in a holding pattern.  She could probably have functioned and continued with her teaching and family without collapsing by taking it, but her real life, her real "self", would never have emerged.  So this has not been an "all or nothing" thing, not a matter of drugs or EFT as though these two things were opposed to each other, but it's been what I suppose might be called "medication-assisted EFT", the two modalities working in concert with each other.

I want to add that in the majority of cases where it has been necessary to use medication along with therapy and EFT, the clients involved have usually voluntarily sought to wean themselves of the drug at the first opportunity.  Most people simply don't want to stay dependent on a substance such as medication if they can possibly help it.  Sometimes these people have even gone off the drug too soon, and unmanageable emotions have surfaced which even persistent use of EFT and therapy have not been able to handle rapidly enough, and they have had to return to taking the medication, usually at a reduced dosage though, until such time as they had worked through the other issues that had been waiting in the wings.  I have found that even this first effort at leaving the medication though, while it may not always succeed, is usually a very positive indication when it occurs.  Almost always those who try it, even if they may at first have to resume taking the medication, do eventually, with persistence and further work, manage to finally successfully get off it.  The need for it is gone then because the underlying damage has been repaired, the deeper wounds have been healed and the cause, not just the symptoms, has been removed.

I must admit though that I have experienced an occasional client with depression who has continued to progress in their therapy by using EFT in a creative fashion but who has nevertheless been unable to do without their medication, no matter how hard they tried to stop it.  When this happens I don't look upon it as a failure.  If God chooses to heal this person by several means at once, who am I to quibble?  If what I see in the therapy is an inner strengthening of the person, a deepening of a sense of peace and happiness in their lives, then I think "so be it," and we go on from there.

The fact is that certain people may even have to stay on a psychiatric medication for the rest of their lives, just the way some diabetics have to stay on insulin in order to live.  These drugs can save lives when they are truly necessary, if, that is, they are sensitively and expertly prescribed — it's simply where we are now in history.  Someday, they will be obsolete, things of the past, but at this point in history there are some problems we haven't yet solved, some mysteries still unexplained.  I find that the best thing I can do for my clients, when this happens, is to recognize this as a fact and "deeply and completely" accept these people just as they are.  That, alone, may be one of the best healings of all.

EFT Master, Dr. Patricia Carrington

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