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EFT for Learning
Challenges
EFT for Learning Challenges
By Dr. Patricia Carrington
Gary Craig's Introduction:
EFT Master, Dr. Patricia Carrington, recently
wrote about "Martin" and his success with EFT in overcoming a
difficulty in learning a technical subject. It was a marvelous story and one
that set a clear example for handling learning challenges of all kinds.
As you will see below, this positive result
held up nicely. However, it was confined to learning through books and other
means OUTSIDE THE CLASSROOM. As fate would have it, Martin subsequently enrolled
in an advanced technical class and immediately developed an uncontrollable
urge to sleep. The cause for this wasn't apparent until Dr. Carrington
masterfully discovered another aspect, namely, Martin's response to his new
teacher's phrase, "You're on your own." This, of course, became an
ideal candidate for EFT. I’m sure You will appreciate Dr. Carrington's
handling of this issue.
This is an important case because it
illustrates so nicely the importance of persistence and skill. EFT, as we
all know, often produces superb results even when the tapping is done
mechanically without any "art of delivery." However, when
mechanical tapping "fails" I think it inappropriate to conclude
that "EFT doesn't work." It is more likely that the practitioner needs
to be more artful. Dr. Carrington's article illustrates this nicely.
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Those
of you who read my article
about Martin, the Web designer who overcame a block to learning an
essential computer language, JAVA, by using EFT, will be interested to hear
what is happening with him now. Even if you didn't read this article,
however, you may well be interested in hearing how we handled the next
obstacle that came up for him in his saga of computer training.
Martin's
original EFT session on this issue consisted of him using his JAVA textbook
to work with me on identifying specific learning blocks that prevented him
from going forward with a study program in this area. With the help of EFT,
Martin not only identified his blocks to learning JAVA, but was able to
change his attitude about learning additional computer skills in a
significant manner.
Now,
from having formerly been postponing any plans whatsoever to learn needed
computer programming skills, Martin has grown to have real enthusiasm and
interest about learning these skills. Also, instead of looking upon learning
programming skills as somehow "beneath a pure Web designer", he is
now fully open to this learning.
An
example of this is what happened when I recently asked him to bring in his
JAVA textbook to a session again. When he arrived, he was able to open it at
virtually any spot and fully and easily understand what was printed there.
He was also able to check on anything he did not understand. In short, he
had made excellent progress with respect to the learning which he outlined
for himself.
However,
he now faced a new challenge. On his own initiative (not at his wife's
suggestion, although I am sure she was pleased about this) Martin had
recently signed up for night school in an intensive course in advanced
computer science. The course teaches the programming language ASP, which
Martin expects will advance his career considerably.
Because
he had been resisting going back to school for such a long time, and for good
measure, Martin scheduled an appointment with me to take place immediately
after the first class meeting.
When
he arrived for this appointment, Martin was of two minds. He found the
teacher definitely competent, the textbook clear and not too difficult to
comprehend and he was actually looking forward to mastering this new computer
language. However, during the class itself he had suddenly become extremely
sleepy– not just a little bit sleepy, but so overwhelmed by fatigue that he
could barely hold his head up making it near impossible for him to
concentrate. What had happened? Martin was understandably concerned.
True,
it had been hot in the room and he had not had enough sleep the night before,
but there was something about the suddenness of the sleepiness and its
intensity that made Martin suspicious. He did not understand this and wanted
to look into it.
The
way we tackled this problem confirms something that many of you may know but
that I cannot repeat often enough — and that is the value of searching for
hidden aspects of a problem and tapping on them one by one until the original
difficulty finally disappears. It also shows the value of being able to meet
the client where they are, so to speak, and not push ahead against odds until
those odds themselves are first handled with the EFT.
Martin
didn't have a clue as to what his strange sleepiness in class was all about
and could think of no reason for it. In response to my questions, all he
could remember about the class was that it seemed to him as though there had
been something " vaguely intimidating" about it, but he had no idea
what that was.
Actually,
the feeling of intimidation didn't seem to have much, if anything, to do with
the actual class, which Martin had so looked forward to. Therefore, to try to
get at this "unknown" quality (an example of Backing
Up in EFT), Martin formulated the following set-up phrase:
"Even
though there was something vaguely intimidating about the class, I choose to
see this class as a very NEW and stimulating experience."
He
included the word "new" at my request because I suspected that some
old patterns from Martin's childhood might be replaying themselves here.
Could it be that what had happened when he switched schools as a boy when his
family moved to a new city –– a traumatic experience for Martin –– was the
culprit here?… We were about to find out.
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